Why is it FREEDOM that you want?
We have protests in our country against the processes the government has put in place to deal with the COVID virus.
Some are organised rallies.
Some are secretive, slurring whispers.
Some have formed into cult-like groups with secret meetings and war-cry slogans that name themselves to each other.
And some are just you and me, quietly expressing our concern.
We want our FREEDOM back.
Why?
I think it’s because all of the things we are being denied are the things we did to maintain our sanity, our mental health.
We hung out with our friends at the mall, at the pub, at the café that sells baby chinos and smashed avo on toast.
We walked in the park.
We gazed at the sea, at the sky, at the clouds, at the sunsets.
We went out and about at times and to places we chose (or at least that’s the story we tell).
We went to jobs that makes us feel useful, gave us a status of sorts, a place in the world, gave us the ability to think for ourselves,
instead of having to juggle the lives of our children, in a job with very little status in that outside world, no recognition and no training in skills, be they hard skills OR soft.
We have to give up sports – wither pitting our own skills,
or analysing and vocally and bodily expressing ourselves about the skills of others.
All of it
All of it
was aimed at keeping us sane, happy, hopeful
on an even keel,
safe, esteemed, useful, with a stable routine of sorts,
able to vent, with mind and body,
maybe even feeling fulfilled.
watching the game
going to the pub or the café
visiting the park or the beach
were just things we did
And we gave ourselves all sorts of reasons
But rarely did we articulate the need for good mental health.
Well, I certainly didn’t, although I was beginning to understand.
Now as I watch this word FREEDOM being bandied about, I see.
Because freedom of choice is one of our basic mental health allies.
Because nature and sport and the arts and social life are some of our basic mental health allies.
And they or access to them has been restricted.
And suddenly FREEDOM is a useful rallying cry for people denied something they didn’t even know they needed,
took for granted, maybe
But had never thought about much until it was taken away
And FREEDOM is a useful word to rally and to protest.
Protest against authority
Generally, the government who has taken this role
And government, I find, has not made mental health its priority in the past
I don’t think we as a society,
Nor our representatives
Have understood mental health until the last century
And certainly not in any compassionate way.
Nor have we understood its impact on the decisions our leaders have made.
If we are deprived of the things we took for granted
Whether they be parks and restaurants and sport and access to the outdoors
Or whether they be what we call privilege and power
the ability to use and dominate resources,
be they natural or human,
FREEDOM is a useful rallying cry.
Some are organised rallies, with fists in the air.
Some are secretive, slurring whispers.
Some have formed into cult-like groups with secret meetings and war-cry slogans and maybe even an item of clothing that name themselves to each other.
And some are just you and me, quietly expressing our concern,
our need for stable mental health.
I finish with a question
In the face of this situation
this situation of leadership
of compassion and understanding
What is the revolution YOU are leading?
And what story are you telling?
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Because that’s what I do – support those of us,
of you who are quietly creating support for a different way of life,
a change to the system,
a way around the system,
a support for those of us who have been left behind by what the system needs to do
Maybe you are into things like reducing your carbon footprint or your use of plastic.
Maybe you are supporting homeless people, donating the services you normally charge for.
Maybe you are charging for services and those services provide the health, the transformation, the skills, the mindset
that no government or system is providing
or you are providing it in a way that the system just does not accommodate.
My services are for you.
Because we need you.
We need your leadership in that field,
even though you may be ONLY in business
ONLY doing the right thing
ONLY getting your pet peeve satisfied
ONLY doing the thing you KNOW to be right
needed
justified
You have the opportunity, perhaps even the responsibility
to lead.
My story services use the art and science of story to allow you to define your leadership, your value
and to present it to the world in a way that will get results
allow you to progress in business, in your career, in your community
to get results
and to give us all the benefit of what you bring.
So if that’s something you need,
something you might be willing to be brave for
something you want to step into.
Let me know and let’s get started!